Have you ever felt the fear of being judged? Silly question, right? Depending on where you are at along your journey, the fear of being judged can show up in many ways. Maybe this fear of being judged holds you back, or maybe its a fear that you have conquered. Maybe, this fear of being judged is A fear you recognize, but you still move forward.
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The fear of being judged, is a fear I recognize. I continue to work at recognizing what fears may hold me back, and moving forward anyway. Its not always easy, but 100 times out of 100, it has been worth it!!
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As some of you may know, I started my career life out as an Interior Designer. This is a career that people like to talk about, ask about and learn about. My family was supportive, people I didn’t even know were supportive! I would get comments like, “WOW that must be a fun job” and sometimes, it was. It felt good for a long time, except….it didn’t fuel my soul. So, I took a leap. I exposed myself and my gifts, and guess what….I went from having a thriving Interior Design Business, to having a thriving energy work business (with a lot of steps and people in between). If I would have waited until I wasn’t scared anymore, I would still be in a job, that only felt good sometimes, that didn’t fuel my souls purpose.
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I am sharing this with you because, I hear from SO many of you that you are searching for your purpose, your passion and what fuels your souls!!
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Here is what I know from experience. Its there. Its in you, but most of the time, there is a fear that is holding you back from accessing it. When there is a lack of belief in self, there will be greater fear of judgement. It might be fear that your family won’t fully accept you, or a fear that others will think you are a fraud, or maybe its a fear of not having security. Here are a few things to remember, as you are moving through fear and into your souls calling!
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Here are the 5 things to remember when you are tuning into your souls calling:
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1. You can change your mind-So many dont take a leap because they are fearful that they will take the “wrong” leap. JUST TRY. If you have 7 different things you are being pulled towards, just pick one and add the rest later if needed. Do this before you quit something else.
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2. Figure out what the overall solution that you are offering to this world is, Zoom in from there. For example. I help guide people to connected living through aligned vibration. There are a MILLION different ways I can do that. EFT, Coaching and intuitive work are three of the ways! When you have a general solution, you can create multiple detailed offers.
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3. Believe in yourself– I know. This is VERY easy to say, but a little harder to do. That’s why its imperative to continue self growth, healing and if available, working with a coach or a mentor that can observe from the outside. This can be a lifetime journey, but its an important one!
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4. Bridges are built for a reason– To get from one side to the other. Give yourself grace if you have to stay somewhere as you build or look for your next opportunity. Perspective shift into gratitude for getting such clarity about what you dont want, so you can create what you do want.
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5. Celebrate your wins, grieve your losses, dont get stuck in either-Expectation of self is a biggie! Am I right?? being present includes celebrating what works and also grieving what doesn’t. But if we get stuck too long in either, our expectation can become overwhelming. There will be great expansion and great contraction. let yourself practice getting comfortable in both.
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Oh!! and a bonus number six, HAVE FUN!!!! I want to hear from you! Head over to Instagram and comment on the post that has the same picture as below! what are you creating, or what have you created??
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